1. FESTIVALS: Ashadh Amavasya or the 'No Moon Day' of
month Ashadh (June 19 as per Uttar Bharat and July 19 as per Dakshin Bharat
calendar) is a very auspicious day when Deepa Puja is performed. On this day,
people clean and decorate their houses and sanctify a 'Chourang' i.e. a table
with decoration and rangoli (kolam) designs around it. All the deepas are
placed on the table and lit to perform pooja. In Andhra Pradesh, it is known as
Chukkal Amavasya (Gauri Puja is performed) and in Karnataka it is called Bhima
Amavasya.
Deepa Puja is dedicated to the deity of one's choice i.e.
Ishta Devata and to Pancha Maha Bhootas (five primordial elements – Air, Water,
Fire, Sky and the Earth). In some cases, devotees dedicate Deepa Puja to the
Goddess Lakshmi, Goddess Parvati or Goddess Saraswati.
On this day, all the diyas are lit once again in the
evening and placed around the house just like Diwali Puja. It is believed that
the radiations of the light of the diyas drive out all the evil and bad powers
and welcome new brightness into their life.
sangha/samiti news: bharat
2. HUGE
INCREASE IN THE ORGANIZATIONAL BASE OF RSS - KARNATAKA SOUTH: The overall
organizational base of Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh, South Unit, Karnataka has
been witnessing a steady addition in its numbers. The annual report released
recently by RSS says that the figures of January 2011 showed a total number of
2597 Shakhas in 1698 places under the RSS Karnaaka Dakshin Prant ( 13 southern districts
of Karnataka state); however, the estimate taken in 2012 shows a remarkable increase
in the Shakha number, taking it to 2715, at 1788 places.
Taking into account the Sangha Shiksha Vargs, the 20
day long training camps of RSS Cadres, the statistics reveal participation by a
total of 1248 new Swayamsevaks in the current year, who have acquired sangh
training. In 13 districts a total number of 29 Prathamik Shiksha Varg (7 day
training camp) were held, where training has been imparted to as many as 3709
new Swayamsevaks.
The Seva Vibhag of RSS Dakshin Pranth has organized
6898 different Seva activities at 2434 places. Jalabharatati, a project dedicated
towards the creation of awareness on water conservation has published 2 major
books on ‘Rain Water Harvesting’ and ‘100 ways of Water Conservation’. In
connection with this, special workshop on water conservation was conducted at
36 places, where 1950 students, 305 teachers and 907 farmers participated.
3. Rashtra Sevika Samiti organised 35 camps: “There are so many women
at top posts today but it has not benefited the women. The country should be in
the hands of the sensitive people whether they are men or women,” Pramilatai
Medhe, Pramukha Sanchalika, Rashtra Sevika Samiti said addressing 225 participants seviksa in
taining camp of four prants (Kashi, Awadh, Goraksh and Kanpur) in Kanpur from
May 27 to June 14. Rashtra Sevika Samiti has organised 35 training camps this
year across the country. About 5,000 activists have been trained in these
camps.
4. Rashtrotthana Blood Bank tops: As
far as total number of blood collected and transfused is concerned,
Rashtrotthana Rakta Nidhi (Blood Bank) at Chamarajpet - Bangalore is the number
one blood bank of the state of Karnataka. Rashtrotthana Parishat is
a Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh initiative for social reforms in Karnataka.
Established 18 years ago, Rashtrotthana Rakta Nidhi
(Blood Bank) has collected blood from a total of 1, 75,073 blood donors. The
collected blood has been given to 1, 31,593 patients. Rest of the blood was
processed for PCV collections, serum separations etc. The total units of blood
collected till March 2012 is 2, 89,321.
5. Sant Uchchadhikar Samiti: Senior saints of the
country have demanded a concrete action plan for ensuring free and minimum flow
in the Ganga. They told the Central government to enact a law in the Monsoon
Session of the Parliament to this effect, failing which, they warned, they
would be compelled to launch a decisive battle for the Ganga. The saints issued
this warning at the Sant Uchchadhikar Samiti meeting of the Vishwa Hindu
Parishad held in Haridwar from June 19 to 20. About a hundred senior saints
from different parts of the country including Shankaracharya Swami Vasudevananda
Saraswati, Pejawar Swami Vishvesh Teertha, Swami Rambhadracharya, Swami
Ramdharacharya, attended the meeting. Shri Ashok Singhal, VHP working President
Dr Pravin Togadia, general secretary Champat Rai, general secretary Shri Dinesh
Chandra and others also attended the meeting.
sangha news: overseas
6. Sydney Ved Pathshala: More than 650 people
experienced pleasance when Vedic chanting and Sanskrit poems resonated their
minds as the Sydney Ved Pathshala celebrated its fourth anniversary on 17 June.
The anniversary celebrations culminated with brilliant cultural performances in
Vedic chanting, Sanskrit skits and poems, and depictions of the Hindu epics,
Ramayana & Mahabharata. More than 150 children, 90 Youth, and Adult showcased
their talents on the occasion.
Vishwa Hindu Parishad National General Secretary Akila
Ramarathinam and her team of 55 voluntary teacher conduct Sanskrit classes in
over 55 schools and more than 6,000 children in Australia, are getting benefit out
of this project. Akila Ramarathinam said that VHP is satisfying community
demand for Vedic chanting, Hindu scripture and Sanskrit classes, and is uniting
Hindus and the Australian community. VHP has 150 volunteers working every week
and 40 youth volunteers as one of the biggest volunteer organization in
Australia. Sydney Veda Patasala was started in 2008 under the guidance of Swami
Vigyananand. This is the first Veda Pathasala outside Bharat.
CULTURAL NEWS: bharat
7. RATH YATRA: Annual Rath Yatra Utsav
began at Jagannathpuri on June 21 with the pulling of the chariots of Lord
Jagannath, Balabhadra and Subhadra repectively known as Nandighosh, Taladhwaja
and Padmadhwaja, by lakhs of devotees, including many from abroad. The chariots
reached their destination, Gundicha temple on June 22. The festival ends nine
days later when the deities make their way back home to the Jagannath temple.
The Rathyatra was also held in other cities of Bharat
like Kanpur, Mumbai, Ahmedabad, Ranchi, etc. and also in many parts of the
world.
8. Amarnath Yatra begins: Jammu and Kashmir Governor NN Vohra was among the first batch
of pilgrims and participated in the “pratham darshan and pooja” to the holy
cave shrine of Shri Amarnath in the Kashmir which commenced on June 25. The
yatra commenced simultaneously from traditional and longer Pahalgam and shorter
but treacherous Baltal routes. The pilgrims began their journey from both the
Baltal and Nunwan base camps. The yatra will conclude on Raksha Bandhan on
August 2, 2012.
9. MUSLIM RASHTRIYA MANCH CAMP: “Muslims in Bharat have
not come from outside but belong to this country and are an inseparable part of
the national life of this country like the Hindus”, observed K S Sudarshan,
former Sarsanghchalak of RSS in Pushkar, Ajmer on June 26, at the 11th National
Training Camp of Muslim Rashtriya Manch (MRM). Delving into the historical
beginning of Muslim Rashtriya Manch a decade ago the former RSS Chief said that
he had asked former President of All India Imam Council Maulana Jameel Iliyasi
as to why the Muslims considered themselves as ‘minority’ when they belonged to
this society and country as much as the Hindus. MRM National Convener Mohd
Afzal, co-convener and incharge of the camp Abbas Ali Bohra, Chhattisgarh Waqf
Board Chairman Salim Ashrafi and former national convener of MRM Salavat Khan
were present on the dais. The thre-day event was attended by over 200 activists
from 25 states.
CULTURAL NEWS: OVERSEAS
10. CHARIOT FESTIVAL IN
ALABAMA: Rath Yatra was celebrated
in Harvest city of US on 24th June in which former ambassador
Pramathesh Rath, along with Athens Mayor Ronnie Marks and Ravi Nath Sharma, a
philosopher from Bharat were guests of honor. To the clamour of gongs, conch
shell, trumpets, cymbals, tambourines and ghanti, devotees and visitors helped
carry the wooden images of Lord Jagannath along with his brother and sister
deities from the main temple of the Hindu Cultural Centre of North Alabama to
the annexe building.
11. Swat Buddha gets facelift: Thanks to the efforts of
Luca Olivieri and his partner Italian archaeologists, the 6-meter-tall image
near the town of Jahanabad is getting a facelift, and many other archaeological
treasures in the scenic Swat Valley are being excavated and preserved.
Hard-line Muslims have a history of targeting
Buddhist, Hindu and other religious sites they consider heretical to Islam. Six
months before the Sept 11, 2001 attacks, the Taliban shocked the world by
dynamiting a pair of 1,500-year-old Buddhist statues in central Afghanistan.
The Jahanabad Buddha, etched high on a huge rock face
in the 6th or 7th century, is one of the largest such carvings in South Asia.
It was attacked in the fall of 2007 when the Pakistani Taliban swarmed across
the scenic Swat Valley.
ACHIEVEMENTS
12. in Naxal heartland: In a first, as many as
149 students from Naxal-hit areas of Chhattisgarh have cleared the AIEEE while
two have cleared the IIT entrance exam this year. Most of them hail from tribal
BPL families. They are all a part of the first batch of students of Prayas, a
residential school-cum-coaching institute for boys set up by the state tribal
welfare department in Raipur in 2010.
“At least 50 will be selected for NITs, while the
remaining will find seats in IIITs. If we keep producing similar results, the
face of Naxal areas will change in five years,” said hostel superintendent
Sripati Azgar. “They will go back with stories of academic success, pushing
others to take the same route.”
13. BHARATIYA-American named US varsity VC: Mitra Dutta, a
distinguished Bharatiya-American engineer-physicist, who has studied at
Guwahati and Delhi universities, has been named vice chancellor for research at
the University of Illinois at Chicago. Dutta, a former senior executive with the
US Army Research Office, has served as interim vice chancellor at one of
America's leading research universities since January, overseeing a research
enterprise with annual expenditures of more than $340 million.
Announcing her appointment, Chancellor Paula
Allen-Meares said: "Her distinguished record as a researcher,
administrator and teacher make her the ideal choice to take on this vital
role."
14. Handicrafts in Kutch: “Sewa International and Sewa Bharati are among
the few who have continued serving the affected after the devastating
earthquake of 2001 and this is the indication of their commitment and
perseverance”, exclaimed Gujarat Chief Minister Narendra Modi while inaugurating the Sewa
International Design & Development Centre, in Jiapar
Village, Kutch, Gujarat
on June 21. The centre is already serving more than 400 women drawn from 16
villages, from a nearby rented location. More than 7000 people gathered for the
inaugural function with women in dominant number.
Narendra Modi said in his typical style in Gujarati
“mane yad chne das varas pahelan meyn Narayanpur nu lokarpan karyun hatu” (I
very well remember that I had inaugurated this village Narayanpur a decade
earlier). He did not miss to pay homage to the founder of Rashtriya Swayamsevak
Sangh Dr. Hedgewar by offering flowers and reminding people of his contribution
to nation building activity. Chairman Sewa International Jai Prakash welcomed
the guests while Ramesh Bhai Mehta elaborated the Sewa International activity
in Kutch post rehabilitation.
15. ASSAM
GIRL TO CARRY OLYMPIC TORCH: A class X student from Assam will represent Bharat at
the Olympic Torch Relay in London. Pinky Karmakar from Barbaruah in Assam's
Dibrugarh district will be among the torchbearers from 20 countries at the
relay in Nottinghamshire on June 28.
"I'm very excited. Only exceptionally talented
people get such opportunities. I am honoured that I was chosen to represent my
country," said 17-year-old Pinky.
Pinky's mother works as a tea-plucker and father is a
painter in a Dibrugarh tea estate. In the evenings, Pinky teaches about 40
women, including her mother, in the tea garden. She also talks to elders at
village meetings on social issues, including child marriage, alcoholism and
adult literacy.
OTHER NEWS STORIES: BHARAT
16. Odisha kids rescued: A total of 18 children
from Odisha, below 10 years of age, who were illegally confined at a church
near Kulasekharam in Kanyakumari District were rescued on June 22. Fifteen of
them were boys. Clarat (47), a Pastor from Puthenthurai, was tracked down by
the Social Welfare Department (DSW) officials and handed over to the police.
The officials said the children were brought by Clarat
on June 20 from Blessing Trust, an NGO run by his friend, Rajkumar, near
Coimbatore, and lodged at the church.
17. Delhi, Mumbai are chosen
ones: Delhi and Mumbai, the two most vital metros of Bharat, have been chosen
for DRDO’s Ballistic Missile Defence system that can be put in place at a short
notice. The strategic planning has already begun to install the BMD system in
the two cities. To ensure maximum protection against air-borne threats, DRDO
will put a mix of counter-attack missiles which will be able to shoot down
enemy missiles both within earth’s atmosphere (endo-atmospheric) and outside it
(exo-atmospheric).
The shield, developed by Defence Research and
Development Organisation, has undergone a series of successful tests. It can
destroy an incoming ballistic missile with the range of up to 2,000 km.
18. AHMEDABAD
BUS SYSTEM A HIT WITH SEVERAL COUNTRIES: Despite a four-wheeler
and a couple of two-wheelers parked at his residence, Manubhai Dhruva prefers
to take the public transport. On being asked the reason, the 78-year-old
retired English lecturer answered with a smile, "It takes me a good 10-15
minutes less to travel by bus than my own vehicle."
Ahmedabad BRTS project has caught the fancy of not
just the local commuters but of several nations. Representatives of countries,
including Tanzania, Lagos, Vietnam, Malaysia, Indonesia, and Dar es Salaam,
have visited the city to study and adopt the system. Today, Ahmedabad BRTS,
officially known as 'Janmarg', offers commuters an average speed of 27 km per
hour -- one of the highest among public road transport in the country.
"Not just did we win some global awards like the Best Sustainable
Transport Award and Best Mass Rapid Transit System but also caught the
attention of other countries who now want to study and adopt the success of
Janmarg." said Shivanand Swamy, associate professor, CEPT University and
team leader of the BRTS project. (Source: http://www.business-standard.com/india/news/ahmedabad-rapid-bus-system-catches-fancyseveral-countries/405368/)
OTHER NEWS STORIES: OVERSEAS
19. THOUSANDS
PERFORM YOGA AT TIMES SQUARE TO WELCOME SUMMER:
Thousands of New Yorkers converged at the popular and
crowded Times Square in sweltering heat to celebrate the summer solstice, the
longest day of the year, by rolling out their yoga mats and performing the
ancient Bharatiya art for over 12 hours.
The Times Square Alliance hosted the 10th edition of
the 'Solstice in Times Square' on June 21 , holding free 'Mind Over Madness'
yoga classes and transforming one of the world's most popular tourist and
commercial destinations into a yoga village to celebrate the arrival of summer.
Four free yoga classes from 7:30 am to 8:30 pm (local
time) were organised for New Yorkers who braved record temperature levels of
about 33 degree Celsius to find their "inner peace and tranquillity."
The event also included one-on-one yoga instructions and free giveaways for
participants. The event was broadcast on some of the giant LED screens that are
a characteristic feature at Times Square.
20. BHARATIYA Americans fund Hindu studies chair
in US University: Bharatiya American organisation has made a
contribution of US$ 3.24 million to establish Swami Vivekananda Visiting
Faculty and Dharma Civilisation Foundation Chair in Hindu Studies at a
prestigious US university in California.
This is the first chair of Hindu studies in the US funded by the Bharatiya
American community and will be established at the University of South
California (USC) School Of Religion with funds from the Dharma Civilisation
Foundation. The Los Angeles based Dharma Civilisation Foundation aims to fund
studies of the Bharatiya civilisation, focusing on Hinduism, Buddhism, Jain and
Sikh religions. The objective is to promote Dharma education through research
scholarship, degree courses and endowed chairs.
21. Christianity down, Hinduism up in Australia: Christianity remained the
most commonly reported religion in Australia, with 61.1 per cent of the
population in 2011 - a decline from 63.9 per cent in 2006. The Australian
Bureau of Statistics reported that the most common non-Christian religions in
2011 were Buddhism (2.5 per cent of the population), Islam (2.2 per cent) and
Hinduism (1.3 per cent). "Of these, Hinduism had experienced the fastest
growth since 2006, increasing from 148,130 to 275,534, followed by Islam from
340,394 to 476,291 and Buddhism from 418,749 to 528,977," the census
reported.
22. Punjabi second only to English in Britain: Punjabi is the most
commonly spoken language among one million children who do not speak English as
a first language in the UK. According to figures released, which were part of
an official census of schools taken in January, other widely spoken languages are
Urdu, Bengali, Gujarati, Somali, Polish, Arabic, Portuguese, Turkish and Tamil.
A separate analysis released earlier this year showed how children who speak
English as their first language are now a minority in more than 1,600 English
schools.
23. SHRI
VISHWA NIKETAN: Pravas: Shri Saumitra Gokhale – samyojak Vishwa Vibhag
finished his tour to Suriname and Guyana to reach Trinidad. Shri Ravikumar – sahsamyojak
is on a tour to USA and Trinidad. Dr.Ram Vaidya-sahsamyojak would also tour
Trinidad. Shri Shyam Parande, secretary Sewa International will be in HongKong
in 1st week of July. Visitors:
Anshul Agrawal & family - USA, Praveen Dhir – USA, Kitty Nawani – Thailand.
FOOD FOR
THOUGHT: 'Do not believe in a thing because you have read about it in a book. Do
not believe in a thing because another man has said it was true. Do not believe
in words because they are hallowed by tradition. Find out the truth for
yourself. Reason it out. That is realization.' - Swami Vivekanand
JAI SHREE RAM
Impression of a USA Shiksharthi: Tritya Varsh 2012
Imagine going into a varg not knowing anyone, where
everyone is speaking in sentences that range from Hindi to Oriya to Malayalam,
where the average temperature during the daytime is around 115 degrees
farenheit, and where there is a huge open ground where the Smriti Mandir—a
memorial to Doctorji and Guruji—are there before you. Thus began tritiya varsh.
Tritiya Varsh was different than all other camps I
attended. It was inspirational, and in
some ways also very challenging. With
1007 people in the varg, ranging from farmers to bus conductors to lawyers to
students to teachers as well as doctors, it was indeed a unique setting. In my gana itself there were people from
Punjab, Delhi, Uttaranchal, Madhya Pradesh,
Maharashtra, Andhra Pradesh, Karnataka, Kerala, Gujarat,
Orissa, and Rajasthan. Ganas were
divided based on your aicchik Vishay (you had to choose one of Danda Yudha,
Niyudha, and Ashtanga yoga—all other vishays such as danda, samata, yogasan
were common), and there were 45 ganas in total.
My gana had 24 people, and interestingly one of them was a fisherman who
had never gone to school in his life.
His name was Chitti Babu—he only spoke telugu and little bit of tamil,
so he barely talked most of the time even though as a gana our nivaas was in
the same room. He would simply smile
when people in our gana would shout his name in a friendly way to attempt to
communicate with him.
One thing I found with him, as well as the farmers and
people from agricultural background was that they are extremely simple.
Their motivation in Sangh is not based primarily on an
intellectual understanding of Hindutva or Sangh ideology, but simply on a deep
feeling of desh bhakti towards Bharat mata.
It was very refreshing to see such simplicity and devotion in them.
As part of the varg we visited Doctorji’s home as
well. We saw the swing (jhula) where he
used to sit, the balcony where he would walk back and forth thinking about
Sangh, as well as the rooms where the baithaks were held (and where they
decided to actually start Sangh). The
home had an atmosphere of peace and silence, and one could feel that Sangh
simply was a natural expression of Doctorji’s being.
One challenge for me was simply being able to explain
how shakha is in the USA is
and how it is different from shakha in India
(many were also quite shocked to know how much it costs to travel from US to India !). Talking that much isn’t my specialty, but one
gets used to it J. Even the food was
very simple with daal, rice, roti, buttermilk and some subji. Interestingly the bhojan vibhag used to have
to make approximately 7000 rotis every day to feed the swayamsevaks at
varg! And not only that, most of the
work in vyavastha was done by kishore swayamsevaks (middle/high school
students)! The energy that they put in
each and every day was absolutely amazing to see.
On a different note, with regards to charcha/baudhik
there were some topics that were difficult to relate to coming from a vishwa
vibhag perspective. In addition, being from USA was both a blessing and a
challenge. There were some who had
preconceived notions of what life is like in the USA, although through time and
some long conversations those misconceptions did clear up.
Overall the experience was truly special and life
changing. One interesting thing I noted
that swayamsevaks in Bharat are used to dealing with conflict virtually all the
time. I heard stories of events in
Kerala from some of the malayalee swayamsevaks in my gana (interestingly I
became the translator for the malayalee swayamsevaks and the Hindi-speaking
swayamsevaks) and how they dealt with conflicts with communists. Many face various challenges socially due to
caste and other social problems in society.
In some of the charcha sessions some of them also shared how they
successfully dealt with these problems using the strength of shakha. In that way the ability of swayamsevaks to
LITERALLY dive into action to handle such issues is extraordinary.
Although there were many many more experiences I could
share, suffice it to say that tritiya varsh is like living a whole life in
Sangh Shiksha Varg. For 30 days I
honestly had no idea what was happening in the outside world. You will see Sangh then truly from a global
perspective, both from Bharat as well as from a Vishwa Vibhag point of
view. And of course on a lighter note,
the 30 days will surely make you lighter as well!
How Fatherhood Has Made Me a Better Hindu
Vineet Chander
A popular narrative in the Bhagavata Purana, one of
Hinduism's most beloved and venerated wisdom texts, involves a king who meets a
forest-dwelling sage. The sage's peaceful demeanor and obvious contentment,
even amidst apparent poverty, astound the king. "Who is your guru?"
the king asks, eager to know where the sage learned in such a way. In response,
the sage enumerates a list of 24 gurus -- a list of unlikely sources of wisdom
that even includes natural phenomenon, and animals -- each of whom demonstrated
to the sage a valuable lesson that he incorporated into his spiritual practice.
Of course, the numerical list is merely illustrative; for one who is eager to
learn, the sage explains, the world is filled with countless teachers. Though
most of us tend to think of gurus in a strictly singular sense, and while many
Hindus do accept one particular guru as their primary spiritual guide or
mentor, they are also encouraged to learn from others. Indeed, Hinduism holds
that anyone -- and ultimately, everyone -- can be a part of our spiritual
growth if we can develop the ability to see them in that way.
I have had to remind myself of that principle, and of
the story of the sage and his 24 gurus, as I've played the role of a father to
my daughter, Shruti Sara, for the past three years. At certain times, bogged
down by the seemingly mundane aspects of child rearing, it has been hard to
discern the spiritual dimension. At others, though, the presence of the Divine
has been palpable and awesome.
Has being a father helped me to be a better Hindu?
In a certain superficial sense, the answer is no. As
much of a joy as Shruti has been, and continues to be, she has also
dramatically uprooted our lives. My wife and I have had to severely reduce our
involvement at our local temples, and cut back on seva (service) that we can
perform there. Attending festivals and holiday observances have become less
about honoring the deities being celebrated, and more about juggling diaper
bags and car seats or managing temper tantrums and picky eating. Meanwhile, at
home the situation has scarcely been better. Regimented practice and worship
have taken a backseat to keeping up with a toddler's largely spontaneous and
unpredictable needs. Being woken up in the middle of the night by a crying
child has rendered early morning meditation a near impossibility. Our home
altar, once diligently maintained as our family's dedicated sacred space, now
suffers from bouts of neglect or only sporadic tending to -- an abandoned
shrine amid the ruins, a temple besieged by Mickey Mouse plush toys and Dora
the Explorer dolls. And Ami and I have sometimes felt like relics as well --
ridiculously exhausted versions of our pre-parental selves, clutching our
wooden japa beads and trying to focus on our prayers, but fighting a losing
battle against sleep and distraction instead.
And yet, on a deeper level -- on a level, perhaps,
that invokes the spirit of the sage and his 24 gurus -- my first three years of
fatherhood have taught me a great deal about what it means to be a person of
faith, and have forced to evaluate and re-evaluate how I wish to live out my
spiritual path, my Dharma. Being a father has been a blessing in my life, yes,
but it has also been a catalyst for my spiritual development in a way that I've
never experienced before. In this sense, Shruti has not only helped me to be a
better Hindu; she has helped me to re-define what being a Hindu is all about.
She challenges me to separate the essential from the
ritual.
I remember being struck by this idea one day when I
was attempting to perform sandhya vandanam, a form of worship that many Hindus
perform at set times every day. I sat with closed eyes, trying to concentrate
on the prayers, when I felt a slight tugging on my janoi, three sacred threads
Hindu priests wear looped over the torso, meant to symbolize purity in thought,
word and deed. I looked down to see Shruti -- only a few months old at the time
-- crawling into my lap and gripping the three consecrated cords in her tiny
hands; suddenly, she bit down on the threads and began chewing on them! Whether
a plea for attention or simply a consequence of teething, the incident seemed a
fitting metaphor for Shruti's attitude toward ritual and principle. While
orthodox Hindus might be horrified by the thought of a baby teething on items
that must be kept ritually clean, it may help to remind us what those items are
supposed to symbolize for us in the first place. If we become so focused on the
ritual that we cannot recognize purity and innocence in the form of a child,
might we not be missing the forest for the trees?
As she has grown older, Shruti's own blossoming
devotion has brought this idea of essence and ritual home for me. She insists
on offering her own stick of incense at the altar each day. She dutifully and
devotionally twirls the unlit stick of incense before the sacred images while
reciting her own simple prayers; afterward, Ami or I light the incense and
allow it to burn out in a holder a safe distance away. To some, the whole thing
might seem like nothing more than a game of make-believe. From my vantage
point, though, I see a profound spiritual exchange take place. For those few
moments, Shruti's eyes are keenly focused on the altar, her attention seems
fixed, her heart is open and her mind is captivated. That she is not deterred
by the fact that the incense is unlit when she offers it just underscores this;
it is almost as if she intuitively understands that the scent is meant
exclusively for the benefit of the Divine -- and he certainly accepts it, and
the love with which it is offered, with or without the act of striking a match.
In her own way, she has tapped into the simple essence
of this practice in a way that I still struggle to. For all my technical
proficiency and adherence to complex ritual, I am humbled and inspired by her
simple devotion. She teaches me how to see with wonder, and hear with my heart.
It is amazing to see Shruti discover something or hear
something new. Her eyes grow wide, her cheeks become flush, her speech quickens
and her voice gets higher. There is not a trace of cynicism or a hint of taking
anything for granted. The underlying fears and doubts that often plague us,
even as we are being blessed with wonderful or profound experiences, are
conspicuous by their absence.
This is obvious in the way Shruti approaches the
stories we tell her from sacred texts and Hindu folk traditions. She has an
insatiable appetite for these stories -- "Tell me Ramayana stories,"
she often demands of me as I'm trying to change her into her pajamas -- that
seems to only grow with each re-telling. This amazes us. For her, these aren't
mere fairy tales to entertain her as she drifts off to sleep. They are living
statements of truth, as real and meaningful to her as my literal descriptions
of what I did at work earlier that day. When we describe Hanuman leaping across
an ocean or Lord Krishna lifting a mountain, she accepts it with a simple and
grateful heart and allows herself to be fully delighted by it.
I know that realists will likely dismiss this, and
critics may even fault us for filling our daughter's head with
"superstition." Frankly, the cynical side of me is also tempted to
write it off as childish innocence that will fade away when the real world
comes crashing in. But Shruti has taught me that I don't have to give in to the
cynicism. If Shruti can be delighted by Krishna lifting a mountain, then why
can't I? And if I truly believe that he is the cause of all causes, the one who
created the mountains in the first place, shouldn't I see life itself as just
as much of a miracle and source of wonder?
In teaching me to hear more with my heart, Shruti has
radically transformed the way I approach my own faith. I am beginning to
realize that, ultimately it is less important whether my intellect can prove
that the stories in the texts are literally true or not. What is critically
important is that there is Truth there, and that it has the potential to deeply
touch my soul if I can approach it with a sense of child-like wonder and
gratitude.
She inspires me to be better.
"True victory is not being better than
another," a Hindu aphorism advises us, "but in being better than your
previous self." As a father, I've come to realize that the joy of
parenthood is inextricably tied to the loving burden of responsibility. My
words, actions, and even consciousness are no longer my own -- they are now
part of the subtle and explicit reality I am creating for Shruti. She is a
constant observer and student, and the words I speak and things I do are
creating impressions in her world. Hindu philosophy calls these impressions
samskaras and considers them the building blocks of spiritual development.
I was given a wake-up call on this front when Shruti
began speaking. I found myself slightly embarrassed to hear my own words coming
out of her mouth. I started to notice her picking up on other things -- my
inflections, or speech patterns, or phrases I just uttered by habit. Soon she
was also imitating the way I sat, the way I slammed doors, even the way I
lazily scrolled through my iPhone at the dinner table.
One day she picked up my meditation beads, adopted the
exact posture that I had been sitting in, and began to mimic my chanting. It
was as sobering as it was endearing. She is watching. She is learning. I have
been blessed with a beautiful and precious gift, but I have also been entrusted
with a serious responsibility. The Bhagavata Purana, the same text that
described the sage and his 24 teachers that I referenced earlier, has strong
words of caution for parents. "One should not become a mother or
father," the text says, "if one is not prepared to help their
children achieve liberation." If I want to be a Hindu father, or a father
who lives his life based on Dharma, I have to take that advice seriously. I
have to constantly strive to be better than my previous self.
Shruti Sara helps to remind me to strive, even --
especially -- when it is hard and seems hopeless. She gives me the most elegant
reason to try. I am certainly far from perfect, but in sincerely trying to
share my love and guidance with her, perhaps I can give her a tiny glimpse into
the love and protection of the Divine, the perfect parent of us all. (Writer
is Coordinator for Hindu Hindu Life, Princeton University.) Huff Post 17 June
2012.
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